In light of the recent tragedy at Bridgewater, I, like many of you, have been feeling uneasy, scared, and angry. Even without a direct connection to Bridgewater College (BC), EMU is only 21 minutes away from their campus.
In situations like school shootings, I often find myself feeling angry and sometimes helpless. There aren’t always apparent ways of helping. However, you can make an effort to support the Bridgewater community, whether that be making and sending cards and food or being a friend to someone connected to the tragedy.
There are things you can do if you’re observing concerning behavior from someone in your life. If they are a peer, I’d encourage you to express your concerns to one of your professors.
Virginia, along with 18 other states and D.C., currently has what is known as a red flag law. According to Virginia Law, Virginia’s red flag law or Emergency Substantial Risk Order (ERSO), allows law enforcement officers and Commonwealth attorneys to petition a judge for an ERSO if “there is probable cause to believe that a person poses a substantial risk of personal injury to himself or others in the near future.”
To use Virginia’s ESRO law and prevent future school shootings, you should convey your concerns and/or evidence for concern to a law enforcement officer and inquire about an order. Firearms can ultimately be revoked for up to 180 days. After that, a new order would need to be issued.
It’s also important for us to remember to be intentional about caring for ourselves in times like these. With so many things to do, I rarely make time to process things or diligently care for myself. However, right now especially is a time to be extra gentle with yourself. If you’re like me, you should remind yourself that taking time for yourself is just as important as being productive is. You don’t have to get everything done right now. If you’re looking for a way to care for yourself, I recommend lots of tea and walking.
While we’re being kind with ourselves, we have to remember to be kind to each other as well. We all need a little extra patience right now. If you see your friend struggling, reach out. Be there even if you can’t see that they’re struggling.
